Thanks for all the support. It is hard to hear that this is only the beginning even though I know it is. The ow happens to have the same interests as my H and he is almost living his dreams through her. I thought in the beginning that it was just an EA but now I don't know. When I confronted him he told me he was not talking to her because I made him feel guilty, now he has said she is one of his closest friends and is helping him through this.
You are 100% correct, he is not in the right frame of mind to look at anything I give him. He has stated that he would like to be a bachelor and live alone because he never did. Sounds like an identity crisis or MLC. Life is difficult with a new baby but I thought things were finally settling down and then he checks out!
Hardest thing at this point is not knowing where he is and what he is doing and infidelity is my biggest fear. 16 years together and he managed to be faithful for 15. It is also hard to understand how someone who has loved for so long, would have done anything for me, cried at our wedding...now has no feelings or concern for me at all.
W-31 H-34 Together-16 Married 5 D- 10 months old Bomb- 13 Oct 07 Separated- 15 Oct
