Tell me exactly what I did wrong.

[Dom R]

But then again... you're not even married to this guy to start with, so, not sure why you're posting in "the sex-starved marriage" forum about this

From your sigfile:

"My current status: separated"

Buffing up my shiny new Cracker Jack SSM badge and looking at the approved criteria on my People Who Should Be and Should Not Be Here Official SSM Participant List - I find that you may not meet our stringent requirements. I also find that I don't meet our stringent requirements.

i was not saying "no one who isnt 'in a sex starved marriage' should 'participate'".

I was pointing out that the topic of threads, is supposed to follow the subject of the forum that they are posted in?
lillie started this thread here. so if you substitute,
"not sure why you're starting a thread in", for "not sure why you're posting in", perhaps the context is clearer.