But we don't. And why is that? It's because we have the hope that they will be returning. And some of the WASs do return. So how can you ever tell which one actually means what they say and which one doesn't?
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How can I tell for sure that I wont' have an accident on my way home from work? how can I tell someone i love will have a terrible illness? You simply can't, you just live one day at a time.
Why I did i wait for my H for 8mths? because I meant what i said when at the altar I said "til death do us part" because I wanted to be true to my vows and not throw in the towel when the going got tough (and tough it did, still is!)

Do you think that little of yourself that you are prepared to wait around while he looks for a replacement?"
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I bet this person hasn't walked in your shoes, I wouldnt' listen to one more word from this person. You guys have been together so long, this fight is worth the fighting and the waiting... I hope that one day you look back and will not be sorry that you tried your darnest to fix your M, that you never took the easy way out and gave up.

I remember someone telling me "what kind of a w would you b if you bail out when your M suffers?"

I call these times of sufferings my trial by fire, I have become a better person through it all, I have learn quite a bit, not the way I would've wanted to learn, but I have. Let this trial of yours be that, an opportunity to be stronger. A great wonderful book that really helps me is "the wounded woman", give it a try hon, hang in there)))))))))))


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.