However, the other day he told me that he is not at all a touchy/feely person and he wasn't nearly as touchy/feely with other women in his life as he is with me.
OT sorry, but whoa, dude, big red flag. IMHO.
(OK, none of the foregoing was even vaguely proper english, but you get the point.)
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