Seperated

[cat03]

your story so very similar to mine, though the ow did come later but my H moved out in secret all the while fooling me

I have surprised myself that I can actually survive without him but it is still a hard journey.
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That's HALF the battle!!! trust me, it took me months to come to that conclusion, I just wanted to die or was holding my breath 'til my H would come around "any day now"... it took 8mths.

Limbo is sickening and disheartening, please see a T on your own asides from MC, it's good that, in any capability, he is going to MC, my H also went after he left the home, if only to fill the requisites for D, not much was solved during C, the only good thing was that he stopped separation papers, that I'll say.

I also agree with Dom, sounds like good ol' MLC, they want' to live it out, go out there, get a new wardrobe, hang out with single guys, BTDT. It is very hard, the first months, because the WAS is blind to any reason. The ow "drug" or "crutch" has them blind. THe ow is not a dejection of you as a person, it is his inability to cope with his depression or whatever isn't working for him, it is just infatuation for the novelty of a new R, all is new, him and ow see themselves in their best light, so all is nice and great.
Reality will set in time, MLC has to carry its course, it is hard to wait but that is the reality of things. In the meantime, GAL, focus on you and baby and decide each day to be happy for YOU and baby)))))))))))))))))) hang in there, you can make it .