on proverbs it says how a man should satisfy himself with his woman, and Paul mentions how a woman/man shouldn't deny him/herself unless it is mutual.
We went to a marriage counselor provided by our church, ========================================= was he a trained professional councelor or just an elder? it makes a huge difference, an elder from church with whom I'd confide admonish me to get a trained councelor.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.