Oh hon, I have barely began to understood what you totally understand and are able to do. Detachign too from my "room mate", was doing a good job at it, thougtht things might go well from there, but the old depression lifted is head, so, here we go again.
I applaud you for releasing you --and him-- from all expectations, hope i get there eventually. Apparently your new approach is working and am very happy for you!
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.