I agree completely. I recognize that I have also rewritten history. I was so busy DBing I would forget that it was me that wanted a divorce first! I was also in denial and perhaps having a MLC, well not a major one I just wanted to improve my appearance!
Denial is powerful. I try to not focus on my H but there is no excuse for an affair or abandoning one's family. There is always a right way to do things that are for the best interest of the kids and just leaving, walking away to go on a permanent vacation is not one of them.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
