I am so sorry. I usually post on Infidelity but your post caught my eye. Wow, the things that happened to you (cell phone, bachelor friends, shutting you out) really hits home for me. I agree with Dom (he is brilliant, take any advice he gives), don't give him any books, those are for you, to help you. And no begging, pleading, or R talks. I don't see the counseling being a success for him right now, as he is so shut off and in a fog. Keep us posted. Try to take your alone time with your baby and enjoy it, I love that age!
