HB2 I lost track of you when I lost my internet for a month but I'm gradually catching up with people again.

I'm so sorry about your dog. I can truely empathise about your D because my D17 used to be exactly like this before H left. Now it is my S15 that I have all these types of probs with.

It sounds to me like your H is one very confused guy. I wish I could say the same about my H. He clearly knows what he wants and hasn't deviated from it since the day he left (which is 2yrs today).

Take care


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15