jar, you have done well. Stay clear of her, she is a ticking time bomb. You don't want her to reel you in (believe me I speak from experience, now I just keep myself out of those situations). The flirting is so fun, but then I picture H's cell phone, or OW, and I'm good.
So sorry about the texting and OM talking to your kids, and the picture on the aquarium, yuck to all of it.
During the throws of the summer love at our house, H used to stay out until 6am or so. He would fall asleep on the couch and then I would leave for work at 7:15am, worked til 5pm or so. Yep, H would have the girls all day long on 1 hour sleep. I would be soooo ticked when he would call and complain how cranky THEY were. Oh yeah...them. I am sure it was them.
Oops, sorry, went off on a bitter ride.......
I agree with you (or someone on here) saying that its going to be a tough stretch over this holiday weekend. Maybe its a 'practice' run for Christmas. Blecky.
PS: Thought of you tonight as I sat through not ONE but both High School Musicals.