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"Wow, I saw it this way, its amazing how two people can see things so differently. I am sorry you felt that way. I wish you would have told me then"


husband, I am sorry you feel this way now. I can tell you I am being honest when I say the above stuff to H. I never meant to do those things, and of course wouldn't want him hurting or feeling rejected.

I don't feel overridden now, I feel forgotten and unloved. Big time.

And listen here mister (look at me when I am talking to you! ;\) ), you are not weak, you love your wife. You saw her slipping away and didn't want that. You still love her, and hope for things to improve. A weaker man would have given up, even if it meant spending less time with his son. A weaker man would have left long ago. You are the strong one.