He set that conversation to go that way. I think you did a wonderful job in both conversations. Because now you've shown him how to please you, you've been honest, you've kept a peaceful tone, and you weren't demanding.
The only thing is, you, like a lot of us, are selling yourself short. Settling.
I've seen you on the boards. You're scary intelligent. Well read. Compassionate. Passionate. You're awesome and you can get awesome.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001