Pretty much my Thanksgiving s*cked. GP is hurt/angry because there was a miscommunication about the reason why I didn't invite him to have Thanksgiving with my family. My daughter and son talked to my 2bx on the phone. He called me the day before to ask when/where he could talk to both kids at the same time- like they were some members of his extended family it was okay to just touch base with on the holidays. My daughter had a bad stomach ache before and after the meal and she started crying (she very rarely cries) on the way home which made me feel a little bit guilty because I had been a bit Type 7 cavalier about her stomach ache but also a whole lot angry at my 2bx because I know talking to him probably upset her. Basically I want to kill him for basically abandoning her. He is such a punk-*ss loser.
Sorry your thanksgiving s*cked, Mojo.
Unfortunately, people not being mind-readers, miscommunications happen. Is this a scenario where you can simply say "I'm really sorry about the misunderstanding" and he will say the same, and you can kiss and make up? Sometimes that's all it takes.
And sorry your kids having to deal with PAS. That s*ucks royally.
