Tell me exactly what I did wrong.

[Dom R]

BUT-- remember, his LL is Acts of Service. He WANTS to do things for me. He'd rather think of it himself instead of having me ask, but he will do favors...

errr.. seems like you have the whole "love languages" thing backwards.

"his love language" is supposed to indicate what he would like YOU, to do for HIM. Not "what He would like to do for You".

sometimes, people "speak" to others, what they would like to receive.

but sometimes, they dont.