Ahaaaaa....what I see going on here is that she has been observing your changes and is now doing similar things that you are doing...
Please can you explain this a little more, because I'm not sure of you interpretation of W behaviour.
At the moment I still get angry looks and muttered comments from W which are not nice, so I don't think I will be asking for a hug anytime soon, and I think a **** is definitely out of the question.
But, I still can see baby steps so I'll carry on. And yes the toilet is fixed without further explaination.
Me:50 W: 49 T:20yrs M: 14 yrs D:11 2005 PA 2006: EA (2003 : 2007) 2007: April ILYBNILWY Aug PA, Sept Separate 2008: Feb Piecing 2009 Limbo 2011: Separated (same house) 2013: Divorcing