H asked where my wedding ring was.. Why?

Here are things which I now believe are part of H's "front": wears wedding ring; takes me to holiday and family parties; stays living in our house

Here are some weird things that don't make sense: kisses goodbye every a.m. and hugs/kisses goodnight; calls to "check in" every day; tm multiple times every day; asks if it's "ok" to go out and do stuff; talked me into waiting to file because of a "business transaction" ... wth??

Yup.. I still live in the twilight zone...