Hmmm, so she continues to unravel. I HATE when they talk to the OW in your home. Sounds like he's staying to me too. You always kind of hope for what I call "baby, I love you, I want you, I need you" but I've come to realize, " are you sure you still want to be married to me" is probably the most grandiose profession of love they can manage. (Hopefully just for now.) I can see how you would be overwhelmed but you're going to be OK. Seems like a positive turn.