A question for the ladies

[Heywyre]

So what happens to all the men and women out there that have been married for years and years, do you think at 90 years old they are still having sex? I doubt it - but they have something that is deeper and better than sex, they LOVE each other and that is what keeps them together, NOT the sex

Quite frankly, if you were anorexic you wouldn't have the capability to even understand anything about feeding yourself, let alone a child. As much as "we" (all of us on this board) want to have a fulfilling sex life, it is not a necessity of life - it is a desire, a very pleasureable desire but not a necessity. I don't know how you can label not having sex as being "unhealthy"

Just because someone, man or woman, does not have a sexual desire does not mean they are "lazy or resentful" - some just do not have the desire, plain and simple. It is not something that comes naturally to all of us. I wish it was, but it is not the case.

I am living with a man that it does not come naturally to - even when he had his A, sex was not a "desire" it was simply for the sexual release and had nothing to do with love in the least. We stay together primarily for the love we share. Do I wish it was more than that, you betcha!! Will it ever be? I don't know and I also don't know at this point if we will stay together much longer. But if we don't stay together, it won't be because of our lack of sex - it goes much deeper than that