Let me now modify the question slightly for the ladies.

Which is more important to you, a) being loved or b) being sexually desired.

Thanks for participating.

-NOPkins-

I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.