Just read through your situation. your H sounds like mine with the anger and the new OW.
I have found comfort reminding myself that he is in the honeymoon period with this woman. Soon the rosy glow will wear off. he has been with her 14 weeks now (Woo Hoo) peanuts compared to over 15 years with me . . .
I know what you mean about the anger. My H said something to me a while back . . . You always get angry and ingnorant when you have done something you know is wrong. I think he was talking about himself...I really do feel that my H is angry with himself. He knows he has let our son down, it must hurt like hell. OW is a constant reminder of what he has lost and the reason why...
I also fret terribly about OW meeting my son. I remember my H telling me that when his parents split up his dad had OW and he hated her and lost a lot of respect for his dad...why do that to our son then? I just don't get it!
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Be The Greener Grass.
Me 40 H 42 Son 11 Married 15 years. Left May 2006 after gambling spree I had EA August 2006 OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!) I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.
