Today... his whole persona changed... he's become... a MAN magnet. I don't know if I can describe it... just that... his looks are smokey... his hugs are smokey... his little kisses are smokey... and he WALKS AWAY from me. \:\) ZOWEEEEEE... WHEW DOGGIE. He has not touched one erogenous zone... he has not said one thing to me about sex, or desire, or anything... but I want to touch that man in all kinds of ways right now....
Hey, your BF is kind of like the post-SSM Mojo - lol. I just think of it as "doing" my natural sexual persona but keeping my clothes on. What you might not realize is that your BF is "telling" you to give him sexual validation. If he took it up a notch he could "tell" you to have sex too but that would take full tanks of confident and horny. I wouldn't initiate sex with a man who was doing the equivalent of stressing over cooking/hosting Thanksgiving dinner because I would regard it as a waste of my sexual energy. However, if a man was always doing the equivalent of stressing over such things I would regard the whole relationship as a waste of my sexual energy.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
