Yeah, sometimes it did sound that way, but the fact that he would still hug me instead of getting angry or a disgusted look on his face broke the ice for us a little bit. Baby steps.
I'm sure he was very unsure, probably(yes reading minds here) thinking how could she still want to hug me after I have treated her badly? It did surprise him a bit. I don't know, it kept me going through the negative times.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
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