Walk Away Wife - My Sitch

[Pudmuddle]

Hi B,

Catching up on your post and this whole new development sounds incredibly good! She is starting to warm up to you very well. She is confused by your calmness because she was expecting a reaction from the old you. People often have EAs/PAs because there was an emotional need not being met with you. But you already knew that. So it really has nothing to do with your R, it is a symptom of a problem in your R, and that is something you want to fix. I think you did fantastic. And letting her know that you didn't need her, but wanted her was an awesome thing to say. Of course, she wants you to pursue her now, because she sees you drawing away, so she is curious. Keep being calm and nice like you are, and she will want more.

I'm so happy for you and this nice progress, just remember to keep going slow. Cheers and Hugs to you!