I think you're right new2moro I think he would twist it around and make it validation for what he's doing. I'm not going to say anything to him but it really kills me the way he ignores our S. Willitend you are right also I do have to be the adult in the house because right now my H is acting like a teenager. I also step back and watch the way my H acts because I dont know what he's going to do next and I'm trying to figure out what stage he is in. For a while it seemed like he was in replay but now it seems like he may be in depression but I'm really not sure. Lately he doesn't come home until really late and he only talks to me when he has to and when he is at home he stays in the den by himself. It's really sad because when I see those commercials on TV for depression it's like I see my H in those commercials. I really think he's in depression but maybe he just hates being around me and my s so he hides in the den. I wish I knew why he hates me so much. I'm going to try to have patience with H but with everything he is doing to me and S it's really hard.
