Still no physical contact between us, I don't get any where near her personal space, and she covers up when she comes out of the shower (did I say I wasn't preoccupied with her ) No talk about the R or D, no talk about us but at least were talking.
When I noticed my H starting to warm up more, I experimented with giving him a hand squeeze or a light hug to see how he would react. Sometimes I would say 'Can we hug?' Or 'I could use a hug?' and he would say 'suuuuuuure'. Experiment with small things and see how she reacts. Don't take it personal if she doesn't like it, but that is a good way to test the waters.
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Oh, one little backslide, the toilet is leaking from the flush tank and I've not fixed it yet. I was going to give her a full explanation as to why it hasn't been done yet, but that's the old me. Tomorrow I'm just gonna do it.
Yes, I say fix it with no explanation! that is a great 180 and will probably shock the heck out of her.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
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