Ahaaaaa....what I see going on here is that she has been observing your changes and is now doing similar things that you are doing... That point is when I noticed my H really start changing for himself and wanting to come back into my life. Not everyone is the same, but this is a good path you are going down. Keep it up!
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
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