my H took s9 shopping and he txt if they could go to hooters to eat. I really hate that place. I don't want to be the same overreating anal person, but when I went there one time with H, trying to be open-minded, I felt really out of place, and disrespected as a woman. I really don't want my s9 being in that type of atmosphere seeing women with skimpy outfits on, and pictures of them everywhere you look.
ugh. I told him I didn't want to make the decision, didn't want to him to think I was overreacting and anal. but that I felt disrespected and out of place when I was there. He said "I'm sorry, he'll be ok." then text that the girl sat them in the back and not many people there.
that made me sad.
I think places like those are part of the reason a lot of men don't have the right kind of respect for women (of course the men clubs are way worse). and the fact that a lot of women are sleazy and give us a bad name doesn't help either.
just venting here.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
