Back at DB/new marriage new WAW

[dh4320]

Hi all,

Well I got a message from the W saying(if have any decency you will let me see the kids today) i told her fine and our babysitter(who is an adult) would stay there with her she started to ask where things are, in a demanding way, camera and other stuff i told her that all the property would get sorted out in court. She keeps trying to engage in nonproductive talks and i start in then remove myself. How can this woman who says she loves me a month ago hate me so much. I am being told that she is bitter and angry, hurt and sad and she is trying to get me to feel the way she is. She violated the court order again by transfering miles out of our amex account, she keeps making one mistake after another. The youth pastor stated she would cry every time he mentioned my name, he thought she brought up (hope) for us, but he felt she was talking about being friends after all this for the sake of our kids. The only thing she would tell him that she was unhappy with is that im controlling, he said is that really enough to change the lives of 4 people and not work on it she said she gave up a long time ago. She did not look healthy, pale lost weight and looks run down. I hate to see her like this but its her own doing. Any thoughts????