I really know how to make sure a Thanksgiving dinner is going to be lively, just enjoy almost a full bottle of wine by my 110lb self, & have the other participants lobby to stop me.
Nomopo summed it up nicely in my last post, with all the Wahhhing I've been doing about the state of my R, I have a WAS who is at least engaged at some level. He(Nomo) called to tell me in person what else he thought about me engaging in R talks, pushing H for a resolution & creating stress & pressure by focusing on H way too much. In other words, back off.
So, that's what is going to happen. I could throw my hands up & give up b/c it's too difficult & I'd have support for doing that everywhere. My mother called last night & told me I had to now end this M b/c it's just too unhealthy. Ya think? As No said this morning, all of us w/WAS's have an unhealthy R right now, we knew that already, & that's what we're trying to change.
H called & wanted me to tell S4 he'd be here in a couple of hours to pick him up, he wanted to get a quick surf in.
Got the distance I was asking for, time to get back to basics.
H cancelled the trip, just not his R w/OW. I'll take the positive out of that & remember that pushing for more will result in less.
