Jarhead,

Hurtin has hit the nail on the head. Your W wants her cake and eat it (you saying No is great).

IMHO, leave her to think about things for a couple of days and then judge the water for the chat.

Paul

Married 16
Know 21
Kids m8, f5

Bomb: 4/07
Despair to Hope: 4/07 - ongoing

Never, ever give up

Current Sitch