OMG what is going to happen? I agree with your MIL. Just last week my mom and bro did that whole intervention with my H and he actually had to defend his affair to them. That just makes it worse. They did not know about the no R talk and no affair talk because it just makes the WS have to put into words why they prefer the OP to the spouse. So he did that!!
And hearing it from his own family does not help either because the WS will just bring out the laundry list of why they blame the LBS. I am sorry but those confrontations and interventions are not even handled well when Dr. Phil does it. Your H will just feel awful and he needs to feel protected like you are on his side. But he is such an ass. He is volatile and you need to stay away from him. The family can put pressure on him in other ways. If he is anything like my H, he may become more abusive to justify his guilt. You know, make you a bitch so he can leave you more easily. Just do not take the bait when he says those crude things like about the bikini wax. My H used to stare at me in the shower too even after he was having an affair!!! I thought , "Why is he staring at me/" When before it used to be just nothing and he made it all nasty.
Last edited by mkultra; 11/23/0705:21 PM.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
