believe me Braveheart that might not be too far into the future. I have been back up to xh's house today to get the things in order for the final moving tomorrow, when I arrived a letter was there from the bank for xh, funny how over the last two years the letters from his bank stopped coming to his property, anyhow the letter was to advise xh that he is in arrears with his mortgage payments. I cannot stress how much that was his first priority every month, if all else failed he would pay the mortgage and always told me the same, he said if you have to do without everything you always pay the mortgage on time, so I didn't believe his solicitor when he said he is struggling for cash, but it appears I was wrong, and whats more he is still partying on down with her and having IVF'S and holidays. I am in shock I cannot believe he as stooped to to the bottom level and is on the verge of having what was our family home repossessed by the bank, he as paid for that property for 21 years never been a problem and after all the money he inherited only 2 years ago, he is potless, and after tomorrow he as lost us 2 for good, oh dear oh dear it is a pity my son and I are so happy in our new home, see where he goes from here, his lovely wife had a house repossessed when she was married for the first time so she is guiding him down the same path.