Well, I tried to contact lawyers Friday after Thanksgiving with no success. These papers I got in mail Wednesday say that if I do not do anything before the 27th then her lawyer will file fault grounds, which she has no grounds, on her behave. The attorney I talked with last week says that even if I file and win fault grounds against her, it will not make a difference in getting fair child custody, etc. Obviously, signing unacceptable papers is out. So, in some way I feel I need to do something in between. Perhaps, contact her by phone or write a letter stipulating the items I disagree upon. If she truly wants this divorce more than anything in the whole world, then I think she will not listen and continue her plot of destroying our family with no regard to 5D or my own feelings. If I do nothing, it probably can be perceived as indifference and that can't be good either. Seems like I have no reasonable choices.
Despite the negative that has to shine through unintentionally, I have hope. The simple long stares, the lingering at drop-offs, and the happiness in my own and my 5D lives are apparent to WAW. I know my wifes financier and my WAW spent a good deal of time talking last night. I imagine this could either be really bad or if she has 2nd thoughts, maybe beneficial. When I see WAW in a few hours to bring 5D, I'll know. I will see it in her face and actions. Nothing is certain but death and taxes. So, I have continue to have hope. As the song says, "search your soul, search your heart, and when you find me there you will search no more." I am confident.
