Jenny, I just wanted to say that for what you are dealing with, you sound very put together and I really admire you. I don't have alot of advice because I don't have children but I know others here will chime in. I am so very sorry you are going through this, especially just having had your son. How is he, by the way? I also want to point out to you that clearly your H is going through something very bad, for him to be able to do this as his son is being born. I hope I am saying this kindly, but what I mean is it takes a very messed up guy to do this at this point in time, in your lives. It sounds like he wants to run away from responsibility and that is exactly what he is doing. I would definitely get a lawyer, and when you tell him/her your situation, I am sure they will be more than happy to advise. You're in my thoughts and prayers. Hope
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
