Originally Posted By: BritInOH
Originally Posted By: lizzy
I am waiting to see how much we see or hear from H today. (I'm worried that my asking about what he said to his mom will set us back some.) H is off work and the girls and I are off of school. I should probably take them somewhere today for the sake of GAL. I'm sure the movies will be swamped and I don't feel like fighting the crowds at the malls. I guess we could do a museum.


Same here - Not really sure what to expect from W today. We're doing dinner, but whos if she'll call during the day or whatever...

D and I are going shopping this afternoon, just for fun. Sure, it'll be totally insane, but it's not like I'm rushing or something \:\)

Originally Posted By: lizzy

It is snowing a little here and the ground is dusted white. In the past I would put up Christmas decs. today. Last year was a pretty bad Christmas and I put off decorating. I won't be doing it today, but I know it is important to do them for me and the girls. I don't know if I should do it all w/out H or try to include him. Usually he wasn't really around when we decorated. Any input?


I'd just start doing it, and if he's around when it's happen then great, otherwise he misses out. I'm sure the D's would love to start putting up decorations and stuff. I wouldn't go out of your way to include H if he didn't do it with you in the past.

Hope you guys have fun today!!


Thanks for your input Brit. Just printed out tickets for the Art Museum. I'm really excited about going as we haven't been there in a few years. I'm sure seeing some Monets will brighten the day. You might want to take your D to the Botanical Gardens over the holidays. They really dec it out for the holidays and have gingerbread houses on display. Nice place for pictures. \:D


Me: 41
H: 42
DDs: 10 & 15
M: 19yrs.
Bomb: June 2007
Separated:10/28/07
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