I don't understand her saying that you have "turned off the love." It's like she trying to blame you in her mind or tell herself that she CAN'T come back b/c you don't love her anymore. What a bunch of crap!

Maybe you need to sit her down and have a chat? At least that way, you know that she knows that you still want her and you can't ever regret anything like "oh, I should have said . . . "

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10