I remember reading your attempts. I would just hope that maybe you can reach her now. Is there a down side to trying again?
UPSIDE - An agreement, some R discussion, closure, reconciliation DOWNSIDE - ?????????????????? I can't think of any.
I suppose there isn't. I simply haven't the interest. It is said that one definition of insanity is repeatedly doing the same thing and expecting a different outcome. I think your suggestion might very well fall into that category. It's not as though I gave this one shot and then just gave up.
In Oregon, the courts require both parties to go to mediation before the case goes before a judge. I'll make one more run at it then (the lawyers are not allowed at the mediation). However, I have very low expectations for any resolution.
