I think it was very positive. I see a lot of similarities to our situation and you seem to be on the right track! I give you a lot of credit for keeping your cool during OM talk.
When my W told me she wanted to S and that I wasn't invited to TG, I keep my cool......very tough...but in the end...she was very surprised and somewhat confused by my attitude. I was almost too good, because she started to assume that I was ok with a D, until I reminded her of my bounderies.
Great work...I'm very happy for you.
Cheers,
MN
Me - 40 W - 32 Together 7 yrs Married 5 yrs Bomb #1 07/23/07 Bomb #2 11/18/07 Seperated on 11/21/07 No Children, two dogs, just returned from 2 year deployment to Iraq.