Took D's over to W's. She literally jumped up on me to give me a hug.
So.. let me set the scene... she is in her pajamas.. glasses on (usually contacts).. Bar stamp on her hand.. picture of all 4 kids (ours and OM's) at the Aquarium on top of the TV. Dozen roses with a card that says "You are special" from OM. Oh yeah.. and I'm sure she was on the phone with OM when we got there.
So.. talk about D's, details etc about them. I'm getting ready to leave and phone rings. Evidently, it's OM. She goes into her room and is talking. Next thing I hear is D5 "Hi OM.. Happy Thanksgiving!!" I'm outta there.. I tell her bye and she tells me to hold on and pushes me out the door..
She gives me a hug and ASKS FOR A KISS. Her BF is on the phone with our 5 year old daughter!?!?
I told her no. She had tears welling up in her eyes and we parted ways.
Now.. here is a series of texts between us that followed:
She: "Happy Thanksgiving dear! I will always love you!" Me: "You too.. You will always be in my heart" She: "Amazing that you can turn off the love! Ok have a great day!"
WTF?? Who has the BF?
Me: "Not turned off. I still love you. More than you know. Have fun at your moms!!" She: "Just getting there!" Me: "Cool.. Tell them I said Happy Thanksgiving!!" She 2 hours later: "Ok"
OK.. So I told her I'd call at 6 to talk to the D's. She said call her moms and if they weren't there to call her cell.
I called her moms and they "just left"
Called W's cell.. basically I tried to get ahold of her for 1.5 hours. I even texted OM and said "If W is there can you have her call me so I can say goodnight to the girls? Thanks"
Finally, I called and got ahold of her.. She's apologetic and said she lost track of time. I'm obviously pissed. I played it cool.
Also, her mom lied to me.. not sure how to read it, but she left 45 minutes before I called and MIL said they just left. UGH.
