H just called. He is driving around and wanted me to meet him at walmart to shop. Hugh? It is cold and I am cozy on the couch with d12. I told him thanks, but no thanks. He called back and asked if he could come over to go through the circulars with me to see what the kids want and if it is on sale. I was hesitant but agreed since d12 was overhearing the conversation and asked if daddy could come by.
I hope I don't regret this. Still going to keep it businesslike.
I think my H watched his family....altogether, spouses and children as a family unit, but I don't know if he wished he had that still or if he is content with the way things are. We shall see. I am going to sit back and wait for things to unfold.