It takes time even after you get back together for them to settle in...and believe it or not for them to feel "safe" with you again...remember as wacked and crazy as their thinking is/was those feelings that they were having were very real to them...and you have to at least respect that whether you agree or not... You also will have feelings of doubt...feelings of "what if" but those are YOUR feelings and just like he has to deal with his feelings...you have to deal with yours... I think it is pretty normal what you are describing of H's behavior...he is probably having his own doubts...just give him space...be supportive...and deal with your doubts in silence for now...it isn't blind faith it is just working through the crap for a while... There might even be times where you will question if you did/are doing the right thing...I think this is normal as well....and H will have the same...it is best if you both don't feel that way at once but if you do be sure and institute a 48 hour rule...if only for yourself... piecing is very hard work...I won't lie about that...but things can be very rewarding if it works out in the end...
