I don't want to call, because I don't want to lie to her about why I wasn't there. H needs to get a backbone.
Sounds like your H isn't ready to face reality. Obviously your in-laws like you, so he's going to get a mouthful from them if he tells them all about what is going on (even if it is only his take on it all).
What are you doing this afternoon, other than laying low?
Laying low is pretty much it. Did a little housework to keep busy. Spent to much time on here. (Not a good job of GAL today.) Read some DR. Took H's dog for a 2 mile walk. Glad I did that because I wasn't home when H and the girls got here, so it didn't look like I was sitting around waiting for them. I wasn't happy that they were gone so long without calling because H didn't even want to go.
Ds just told me I hurt grandma's feelings. I asked how they knew that and they said she said so. Apparently one of them told her I wasn't feeling good. H however told her I wasn't very happy with him lately. I asked if H said he wasn't happy with me, to which I was told no. His mom also said I didn't need to punish her. So right now I am POed beyond belief!!!
Right now H is upstairs napping in what was our bed. I guess the office is getting to him. I really need to pray the serenity prayer before he comes downstairs.
