H sent me a text about an hour after they left. Something about his mother's oven that didn't make sense. I didn't even respond. Haven't heard anything since and they have now been gone for almost 4 hours. Did have messages from SIL (who I don't care for) calling to see if I was feeling ok. MIL also called to see if I wanted her to send a plate of food and to say she loves me. I don't want to call, because I don't want to lie to her about why I wasn't there. H needs to get a backbone.