Well, H and girls left for his mother's house about 10 minutes ago. They didn't give him any of the drama about me not going that I saw last night. I think they are walking on eggshells too. They won't share any of how they feel w/ their dad. He really has no idea how hard this is on them. H still hasn't told his parents. They are telling his family that I don't feel good today. Can't figure out if he won't tell them because he doesn't want to hear what they have to say, or because he may still want to work this out someday.
