I think you are trying to disect your situation too much. I have been here off and on for 6 years. My first M ended in D but we did reconcile for 6 months b4 D, i didnt stick with the DB, now im back with second M but this time i have kids. I dont think u should file first, i had to because of my wifes postpartum and she did not take her meds. She took off one night with the kids and to get temp custody i had to file in order for the judge to grant it. Did i want to, no she did not leave me any choice. So unless your left no choice but to file then dont, keep fighting the fight....
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Me 35 W 26 S 3 D 10 months I have custody Bomb 11/9/07 W PA 10/07 ended 2/08 Removed W from house 11/16/07 I filed in Nov. D put on hold http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1268484&page=6&fpart=16
