Just a thought cliffy, if you are always so calm maybe throw in a bucket of emotion as a 180? My H is USUALLY very calm, at least on the outside, and sometimes I want to just SHAKE him and say 'doesn't any of this bug the sh!t out of you enough to change it?'

Make a happy day on this day of Thanks!

ps - keep the water trough out of the wind when you're taking a bath. ;\)


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