Just a thought cliffy, if you are always so calm maybe throw in a bucket of emotion as a 180? My H is USUALLY very calm, at least on the outside, and sometimes I want to just SHAKE him and say 'doesn't any of this bug the sh!t out of you enough to change it?'
Make a happy day on this day of Thanks!
ps - keep the water trough out of the wind when you're taking a bath.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.