It's her mom.. she's driving the train. W lets her do it.
So.. special update. W calls this morning. She's supposed to pick up D's at 11. She asks if I can bring them over.. I said "You were supposed to pick them up here weren't you?'
She: "Yeah.. kind of" Me: "What do you mean kind of?" She: "Well.. I didn't get to bed till 6 and I'm just now getting going"
Perfect.. Oh yeah.. she got a text while on the phone.
OK. My W is an OK mother at best.. don't mean to slam her, but she doesn't discipline them and is in a very selfish place now.
I called MIL.. I told her that I wasn't tattling, but I wanted her to pay special attention to the D's because W was out till 6. Probably a dumb move, but I really am worried about the girls. She will be short tempered with them and I know it.
MIL seemed appreciative. I could care less if W finds out at this point. She needs to realize that our girls are the most important thing in our lives. She really needs to grow up.