Fence sitting spouse leaving you some hope that s/he falls off on the hoped for side of the fence, or someone that is already on the wrong side and stringing up barbed wire across the tops of the fence-posts? Myself, I'd prefer Option A.
Hoping everyone gets through this difficult day as well as possible and sees the sun rise on a new day tomorrow.
Me:46 Her:40 Daughter:7 She Dropped Bomb:10/7/07 She Filed Papers w/State:10/30/07 I Left Home:11/11/07 I Moved Back In:11/13/07 My Outlook: I want nothing more than a future together and will do whatever it takes. Her Outlook: Been too long coming, I'm done.