Can your wife get a first refusal clause put in with the sale of the horse? I would certainly do that if I were selling mine.
Man on man, my horse was one of my worries when my H dropped his bomb. Living with a man that doesn't like horses stinks - if your W needs to know what that's like point her in my direction. If I ever split with my H I would make damn sure the next one liked them!!!
Jar, I am sorry about your W. To someone like me who lives and breathes my horse after my kids and H, it is a measure of the insanity of the place your W is in, (although to her I would think she feels desperation inside), that she could part company with one let alone more.
I truly hope you have a good TG and that you get a call from your Ds. Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength